( this is my first time writing a topic in the ENG. Sec. , ( actully the whole formus
and i hope U like what i'm gonna say , & share your thoughts with me
the reason i wrote it is that somthing happened between me & my Mother reacently
Well of course we can't deny our great love 2our Parents , also we can't deny that we r sure that our Parents Love ous 2 ....
but greatest of all is that we can't deny that most of our conversations with our Parents end up with a FIGHT !!
we do have different opinions , thoughts or point of Views .. and we always want 2 prove that our point of Views or opinions r the correct ones ..
But , deep down inside we r sure that we r not totally correct & our Parents some how r .
we keep on insisting that we r right & at the same time we r struggling with ourselves , knowing that what our parents is saying is more proper
this makes us angry or may B teased ! so,all we can do then is RAISE our VOICES or smart-talk them & the Problems Begin !!!
i kept asking my self :
* Why can't we Just Confess that thier opinions r better & that they have more experience than we do???
*Why do we Refuse any opinion from our Parents & accept it only when we find out that 1 of our friends has the same opinion
* Is this a kind of sickness??
may B , but i think i found someways 2 solve the problem
STEP 1 :
while having a conversation with them & u find that a big FIGHT is on it's way , STOP the conversation immediately & GO any where else
STEP 2 :
instead of trying 2 convince your self that U r right and they'r wrong , try seeing things from different prespective , as they r much older than u
STEP 3 :
STOP thinking of you'r Parents as if they r you'r ENEMIES but instead treat them as friends
STEP 4 :
B sure that all they care about is YOU , they want the BEST 4 U + they don't want u 2 face any Troubles
What do U think!! easy or not ??!!
TRY it !! and let me know what happens
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